RESOLVE SHADOW
Track the Triggers, Trails and Traces
Discover proven strategies and techniques to resolve shadow and heal the inner self
Our Effectiveness as Leaders Depends on Healing Shadow
Discover how to cultivate the self, diagnose drama, and integrate shadow
“The unconscious insists, repeats, and practically breaks down the door, to be heard.
The only way to hear it, is to invite it into the room ..." Annie Rogers, Psychologist
Cultivate the Self and Resolve Shadow
Our inner mindset, both conscious and subconscious, creates our outer life experience. We can cultivate our inner self by attending to our words and thoughts, emotions and perceptions. Simultaneously, if we diagnose the psychodynamics underlying dramas, we can deepen our self-awareness. By understanding and resolving reactive patterns at their source, we can eliminate emotional triggers, expand our leadership capacity, enhance our wellbeing, and shift from struggling and striving to thriving and flourishing.
We Heal Shadow on the Journey from Achievist to Synergist
As we lean into the collaborative collective systemic 4th Perspective at Catalyst, from the competitive individual linear 3rd Perspective at Achievist, we begin to cultivate our inner world to manifest a new reality in our outer world. To mature psychologically, we learn to perceive, diagnose, and resolve inner shadow to develop a healthy ego. An outcome of effective shadow resolution is a calm and clear Synergist Mindset at mature 4th Perspective. This complexity of mindset is the single largest driver to leading effective transformation.
The Learning Outcomes
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How to develop resilience, resonance, resourcefulness, and reverence with techniques to uplift your self-expression.
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Diagnose power dynamics as an underlying source of relationship issues to develop your own authentic power.
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Embrace and resolve team conflicts through process and attitude with respect to priorities and personal boundaries.
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Discover how to diagnose emotional triggers and trails so you can love the drama to resolve the underlying shadow.
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Attend to clamouring inner voices so you can reintegrate disparate parts of the self to develop a calm clear mind.
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Recognize your inner saboteurs to leave sabotaging habits behind so you can build life-enhancing relationships.
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Explore and heal ancestral family patterns to deepen your self-awareness and lead a more meaningful and purposeful life.
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Open up to dissonant past experiences by evoking self-compassion with the boldness to humbly walk into the fire.
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You’ll complete this Program realizing that the evolutionary lifelong journey to human wholeness is deeply fulfilling.
The 12 Modules in RESOLVE SHADOW are:
MODULE 1
Introduction to the Program
Authentic Conscious Leadership arises from cultivating our Self as instrument to learn to lead from within while diagnosing and healing Shadow to integrate the natural Holistic Self.
- Dive deep to appreciate Identity through Vertical Perspectives
- Understand emotions as energy-in-motion, our innate signalling system
- Identify, interpret, and heal personal, ancestral, and cultural shadow
You'll learn to identify and cultivate the true authentic genuine Self and discover how shadow is revealed, resolved and healed at source to develop a calm, clear mind with a Synergist Mindset.
MODULE 2
Cultivate an Open Mindset
Discover how to use the power of the mind, heart, and imagination through our reflections and self-expression to create a life by design rather than live one by default.
- Our changing Life Experience from Vertical Perspectives
- How to consciously prime the mind to co-create your life
- Raising self-awareness through reflective attention
You’ll learn how to eliminate thought-weeds and nurture idea-plants, and develop an open mindset so you can harvest the CROP of Challenges, Resources, Opportunities and People.
MODULE 3
Navigate Energy in Motion
Appreciate the value of emotional resonance and dissonance in navigating your path in life. Heart coherence is invaluable in moving into the flow of congruence.
- Human Motives from Vertical Perspectives
- How mood dictates our wellbeing and psychological immunity
- How heart, mind, emotions, and self-expression align
You’ll learn how to interpret your emotions through various models so you can leverage your attention to raise your level of conscious awareness and navigate energy in motion.
MODULE 4
Discern Energy Fields
Discover how to take Emotional Intelligence to the 4th Perspective by detecting and honouring subtle emotions to discern the underlying dynamics in your inner self.
- The Energy Fields of our life experience from Vertical Perspectives
- Cultivate the expression of a warm conscious honourable heart
- Lean into the emotional states and worldviews of harmonious living
Beyond regulating your emotions, you’ll learn how to develop resilience, resonance, resourcefulness, and reverence by consciously harmonising your emotions.
MODULE 5
See Relationship Dynamics
Review the attitudes and processes that contribute to constructive and destructive relationships, and the power of systemic memes to cocreate or inhibit collaboration.
- Examine Models of Trust from a Vertical Perspective
- The keys to developing robust adult relationships
- The ripple effects of systemic unconscious bias
You’ll learn how to diagnose power dynamics as an underlying source of relationship issues in terms of your own personal authentic power to develop interdependence.
MODULE 6
Resolve Team Conflicts
How do teams become High Trust High Performance (HTHP) Teams that are authentic and agile, courageous and collaborative, inclusive and innovative?
- Explore the key aspects of HTHP Teams take shared accountability for
- The distinctions between expectations and aspirations, rules and standards
- How to resolve the most prominent behaviours that derail HTHP Teams
You’ll learn how to embrace and resolve team conflicts through process and attitude with respect to priorities and personal boundaries. Vulnerability begets responsibility.
MODULE 7
Interpret Emotional Triggers
Triggers, transference, and throw-away lines are traces of shadow that can be tracked, explored, understood, resolved and healed at source to eliminate them.
- How the shift into the 4th Perspective demands inquiry into shadow dynamics
- Explore how our self-expression is constantly offering a mirror of ourself
- Examine th psychodynamics of ego-protective shadow trails
You’ll learn how to diagnose inner recurring psychological patterns and themes so you learn to love the drama and remove yourself from it to gain deep insights into shadow.
MODULE 8
Heal Inner Personal Shadow
Distinguishing emotional reactive patterns from emotional response patterns enables you to discern your own unique emotional signalling system and take remedial action.
- Explore the interactions of the triune brain during emotional reactions
- The health symptoms of unaddressed suppressed emotional pain
- The GRIEF process to resolve, heal, and eliminate shadow at source
You’ll learn how to attend to clamouring inner voices so you can reintegrate disparate parts of the self to clear and calm the mind. This integration process heals inner shadow.
MODULE 9
Release Inner Saboteurs
To self-sabotage is to unconsciously play out the roles of victim, perpetrator and rescuer among other archetypes. They inhibit our effectiveness and can derail our careers.
- How personal trauma during childhood becomes inner shadow
- How the psyche of the ego protects us from harm yet sabotages the self
- How we sabotage ourselves as critics, escapists, addicts, and orphans
You’ll learn to recognize your inner saboteurs, often lifelong actors, to cultivate your human wholeness. This grows your capacity to build life-enhancing relationships.
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MODULE 10
Dissolve Ancestral Shadow
Ancestral shadow that flows through multiple generations has been identified through embryology, epigenetics, and cell biology, especially through the early maternal bond.
- How entanglement arises through inexplicable symptoms and feelings
- How various family dynamics become embedded in our unconscious choices
- The COVER process to heal intergenerational ancestral shadow
You’ll learn how to explore the common themes in your family ancestry, see how your life is impacted by enacting self-protective strategies, and dissolve them in your psyche.
MODULE 11
Absolve Cultural Shadow
Systemic cultural shadow found in organizations, nations, and other types of communities are deeply embedded in our psyche without our conscious awareness.
- Explore the power dynamics of history to appreciate the shadow patterns
- Examine the current culture of fears, desires, needs, and aspirations
- The transformative power of psychological wounds to work on us
You’ll learn how to embody the shame and humiliation of the past by leaning into your powerlessness yet with the boldness to walk into the fire with humble openness.
MODULE 12
The Authentic Conscious Leader
Cultivating the self and healing shadow results in the development of Authentic Conscious Leadership able to show human vulnerability and reverent care for others.
- Individual Shadow through the Stages of Vertical Perspectives
- Deepen the Authentic Self by tuning into your emotional signalling system
- Develop a more Conscious Self by interpreting and resolving shadow
You’ll complete this Program realizing that the evolutionary journey to greater human wholeness is both personal and universal as an individual and as a collective.
WHY a StageSHIFT Program?
The StageSHIFT approach to Vertical Leadership Development covers all four quadrants of our life experience: our inner and outer worlds as a holistic individual and as the systemic collective.
The RESOLVE SHADOW Program goes to the core of our IDENTITY: the Interior of the Individual. It focuses on SINCERITY & SHADOW. By cultivating the Self and resolving Shadow, you'll develop a more Authentic and Conscious Leadership presence.
StageSHIFT takes a 3rd generation Transformative Coaching approach replete with deep inquiry and revelatory insights to accelerate growth to a complex Synergist Mindset within 1-2 years, 3 times faster than the usual 5-6 years, if ever.
INTRODUCING
Our RADAR Learning Architecture
The RADAR Learning Architecture offers a cyclical iterative cumulative approach to deepen your understanding of human experiences and apply that learning to yourself and others.
- Review & Reflection of the online materials.
- Attention & Awareness to deepen self-inquiry.
- Discovery Dialogues to explore and integrate learning.
- Assignments & Application to learn by doing.
- Results & Revelation to appreciate our growth.
Evolve through Engagement, Exploration, and Enablement.
This 20-week Program includes:
- The VHLP Assessment, Report and 1:1 Discovery Debrief.
- 20-min Videos and 15pp of RADAR Notes for each of 12 Modules. These are drip-fed weekly throughout the Program.
- A series of questions to invite deep personal inquiry.
- 10 *90-min Immersive Group Discovery Dialogues or 5 * 90-min Private Coaching Sessions to deepen the inquiry and integrate the learning.
- Assignments to apply the frameworks and techniques. You will learn by doing and feel the joy of growing self-awareness.
- Thoughtful feedback and input on Assignments to deepen your developing self-awareness and integration of your holistic self.
- Responsive Transformative Coaching on any situations, challenges, or dilemmas you encounter.
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The StageSHIFT VHLD Profile
Vertical Holistic Leadership Development
This mini-Program introduces you to the concept of Vertical Development. By understanding where you are on your journey, and appreciating your key sources of shadow identified through Stressors and Blind Spots, we can customize your Evolutionary Journey Map.
- 3 Modules on the Psychology, Structure & Nature of VHLD.
- Your Self Assessment across 156 leadership capabilities and shadow elements thru 6 Stages from Specialist to Alchemist.
- A 40p VHLD Profile Report calibrating your current Leadership Presence and top 7 Strengths, Stressors, Blind Spots & Stretches.
- Video guidance and a template to review your VHLD Report.
- A 90-min 1:1 Deep Discovery Debrief on your VHLD Findings.
- The articulation of your Aspirational Leadership Brand Declaration.
- The creation of your own unique 12-month Evolutionary Journey Map.
We take a sophisticated thematic resonance approach to the Discovery Debrief to develop your intuitive awareness of your Holistic Self beyond the more conventional rational gap analysis related to role fit. Through the lenses of Stage and Style, we relate Mindset to Role Fit.
Are you ready to ...
- Explore, understand, resolve, and heal parts of your subconscious shadow?
- Develop a greater sense of personal resilience, resourcefulness, and wellbeing?
- Gain a better understanding of the dynamics that underlie relationships?
- Reframe your history to renew your identity and actively shape your destiny?
- Learn to listen deeply into the psychodynamics that underlie interactions?
- Live a more emotionally free life with significantly increased self-awareness?
- Build more constructive relationships embracing conflict and dissonance?
- Become a wiser, kinder, and more compassionate leader who inspires others?
- Apply proven techniques to coach others to lift their leadership effectiveness?
The RESOLVE SHADOW Program
This is a 20-Week Vertical Leadership Development Program.
- The Vertical Holistic Leadership Profile Assessment & 40p Report.
- 12 Online Modules on Vertical Holistic Leadership Development.
- A 1:1 Discovery Debrief with your StageSHIFT Coach.
- The creation of a unique 12-month Evolutionary Development Map.
- 12 Online Modules to Cultivate the Self and Resolve Shadow.
- 10 *90-min Immersive Group Discovery Dialogues or 5 *90-min Private Coaching Sessions.
- Explicit customized feedback on Individual Assignments.
- Responsive Transformative Coaching on any situations you face.
REGISTER NOW TO GET STARTED TODAY!
Cultivate the Self and Resolve Shadow
VHLP ASSESSMENT
This Program includes the VHLP Assessment, 12 modules on Vertical Development, a template to review your Report, a 1:1 Discovery Debrief, and the development of your own 12-month Evolutionary Journey Map.
LIVE PROGRAM YOU CAN BEGIN NOW
Study the Online Modules at your own Pace, and Join our Live Group Discovery Dialogues at 8am CET or 5pm PST fortnightly to ask questions and share experiences so you can explore the psychodynamics and embrace more of your holistic self.
14-DAY MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE
If you aren’t completely satisfied with the StageSHIFT Program, let us know within the first 14-days for a full refund less the Assessments purchased for you. No questions asked.
Wow! Antoinette is not only one of the more knowledgeable people I have come across in this field, but she's also one of the most practical in sharing that knowledge with executives and delivering the most relevant business benefits in a meaningful and holistic way.
Her attention to the shadow side of coaching makes a huge difference.
I cannot recommend this program highly enough to leaders who know and feel they can develop themselves and their organizations to take the lead in the volatile, chaotic and uncertain world we have today and deliver long term sustainable results.
- Ian Sellick, Transformative StageSHIFT Executive Coach
Antoinette's profound and rare capacity to simultaneously inspire developmental movement in individuals and teams is remarkable.
She is part of a class of brilliant, humble human beings, who invite you to fully meet yourself, your shadows and potential, simply by their presence and capacity to hold that space.
Through her unique, well-researched body of work, she enables leaders to integrate business and human development so we all win: our planet, our communities, and our businesses.
- Jacqueline van Paassen, Transformative Executive Coach & Consultant
Embarking on the transformative StageSHIFT journey with Antoinette has been nothing short of phenomenal! Her mastery in coaching shines through as she seamlessly blends deep wisdom, compassion, and unwavering support.
Weaving this with her extensive organizational knowledge and tried-and-tested suite of personal leadership development tools, the impact is immense.
Delving into shadows at individual, family and system levels, while sculpting a unique path for each person, has been a game-changer for personal and professional leadership growth.
- Karen Dobben, CEO & StageSHIFT Executive Coach
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